TikTok content creator, Jarvis blasts critics dragging Peller over a video of their public altercation.
It would be recalled that a video that recently surfaced online showed Peller pushing Jarvis into their car.
The incident had sparked mixed reactions and criticisms which prompted Peller to release a statement owning up to his mistake.
Jarvis opined that those giving her advice should advise themselves and their respective families.
She noted that what happened between her and Peller wasn’t physical abuse.
According to her, Peller would change and they’re both still work in progress.
She said …
“Advice your family. I’m not going to hide under the fact that I say I’m a small girl. I’m a small girl but at least I am old enough to take up my responsibilities and know what I want. I know what I want. Now you people are giving this narrative that Pella is beating me. Are you people okay? I’ve been small picking. I don’t know, maybe you people are using Pella’s kind of eye to be looking at me. But hey you, I’m a smorgasbord but I’m not a child. And if a man beats me, or he’s beating me, ah, this is not in 1960, whereby, maybe they’ll say one woman marry, and the husband is beating her, they’ll not tell the lady, don’t leave your man, you stay there, eh, protect, eh, what? Me, I’m not doing that. If it was something like that, I would have left. I’m not capping. If there was something of abusive or we are fighting or it’s hitting me like all those beats, I would have left. There’s no two way about it. My life first, you get. My mental health, my sanity first. Now, abusive means… We all know. And anybody that is going through abusive state. When I mean abusive, you know what I mean by abuse. Like they don’t beat you up, they don’t swear. Or you are going through hell. They don’t use cordless or knife to yama yama you. Please, my body is still clean. I’m still intact, okay? So if you are experiencing that, run for your life. Please, do not stay there. This one is not it, okay? That pushing was not it actually. He’s a no-no, but I believe that he will change. Because me too, if it was before, as he pushed me, I swear to God, I would raise my hand back. But me too, I’m still trying to also control myself and put my hand in my place and also act like a lady. Because I believe this mentality of senior, senior, senior sometimes gets to me and I just want to be… Controlling some time for me. I’m also trying to tackle myself as a lady So you need to I believe with time with this one, you know how to be handling things small small. Maybe I stop Those narrative of, like, I will listen to you or you should tell me what to do. You don’t tell me what to do. Whatever mistake I make, I own up to it and I ensure to correct it. That’s part of life and that’s part of growing. And I’m growing and I’m learning. Okay? So you think that your opinion, your advice is working for me? Bro, it’s not working. Okay? I decide what I want. I know what I want and I go for it. I’m in a relationship not because of you. It’s because I want to. I’m in a relationship with him because I love him. Not because you told me to love him. And most of you are saying because of fame and money. Please. He’s just coming up. We are both coming up. How many fame? Which fame? What fame? Which money? I don’t know that people that have money or that are bigger. So it’s not because of fame and money. And I don’t know which money that they talk about too. Because I don’t know. My problem is that I don’t show off. You get it? But people will not push me to be showing off. And I will not do that. I show off what people want to see. I don’t like making my document be bright. What I have in account. What I don’t have in account. Or be adding values to my account that I don’t have. All those things will be keeping…”
