Nigerian actress, Iyabo Ojo has lambasted social media critic, Martins Otse aka VeryDarkMan after he made damning allegations against her in a viral video, including claims of infidelity and accepting bribes.
In a lengthy Instagram post, Iyabo Ojo expressed sympathy for VDM’s troubled childhood, which she believes has contributed to his toxic behavior.
She noted that VDM’s parents failed to provide him with a stable and loving environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.
Iyabo Ojo questioned VDM’s mother’s parenting decisions, wondering why she allowed her child to fend for himself at a young age.
She also accused VDM’s mother of being dependent on her ex-husband and failing to provide for her children.
The actress urged VDM to forgive his parents and find peace, rather than directing his anger towards innocent people.
Iyabo Ojo’s response comes after VDM made several allegations against her, including claims that she had a threesome with her daughter and accepted N65 million to seek justice for the late singer Mohbad.
She wrote:
“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Your toxic narcissistic behavior stems from unresolved anger and pain caused by your parents’ failure to provide a nurturing environment.
“Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to attack successful men and women. Listening to your story, it’s clear that you faced a lot of hardships, including stealing food to survive and almost being lynched as a child. Why would your mother let that happen? Mama Vincent, why didn’t you do more to provide stability for your child?
“Vincent, your unresolved trauma has turned you into a manipulative, deceitful, and toxic person who tarnishes reputations for relevance. Your anger is misplaced—your parents are to blame, not Paulo, Mama Festus, Priscilla, or me.
“Your obsession with me shows that my name lives rent-free in your head. If it helps you sleep better, continue. But I urge you to forgive your parents and free your heart from hate. Only then will you find peace.”