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Celebrity dancer Kaffy has emphasized the importance of protecting children and establishing clear boundaries, particularly when it comes to trusted adults in the home.
In a video posted on Instagram, she said a lot of families still don’t realize that harmful situations involving children often come from familiar and trusted individuals — not strangers.
According to Kaffy: “Parents need to be cautious of the favorite uncles, the favorite aunties, the favorite nannies, the favorite drivers. There needs to be boundaries. Many children face uncomfortable situations from people who are close to them.”
Kaffy explained that in many African homes, people are encouraged to be overly familiar with children, without considering how it may affect the child’s sense of personal space.
She shared that when she was younger, someone close to her family crossed personal boundaries with her, and although she didn’t fully understand it at the time, she knew it didn’t feel right.
She said: “It happened right in front of people who trusted the person. At that age, I didn’t understand what was going on. But I knew something about it was wrong.”
Kaffy pointed out that people who harm children don’t always appear suspicious:“Many of them appear caring. They may be the ones who always want to help or be around the child. That’s why parents need to pay attention and set clear boundaries.”
She also spoke against adults making unnecessary comments about children’s bodies or giving physical affection without consent.
“Some compliments are unnecessary. Some physical touch is unnecessary. Even if the person is a family member. A child is a child. Respect their space.”
Kaffy urged parents and guardians to teach children that they are allowed to say ‘no’ when they feel uncomfortable — regardless of who the adult is.
She concluded by saying she would continue the conversation in her upcoming session, encouraging parents to learn how to recognize early signs and create safe emotional environments for their children.
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Popular Nollywood actress Regina Daniels has appealed to Nigerians to stop targeting her mother, Rita Daniels, with insults over her marital issues.
Recall that Regina’s family members have accused her estranged husband Ned Nwoko of arresting her brother and vowing not to release him until she decides to come back home and go for rehab.
The rift between the duo began after a viral video showed the actress crying out that she was being manhandled by her husband.
However Nwoko denied assaulting his wife and claimed that she was a drug addict.
Some netizens have blamed Regina’s mother for permitting her to marry the lawmaker.
However, addressing the situation in a video shared on her Instagram page, the actress stated that her mother was not to blame for her decision.
According to her, her family members warned her not to marry Nwoko but she refused because she was in love.
The mother of two said she fled from home in the middle of the night when her family tried to stop her from marrying the billionaire.
She said, “The main essence of this video actually is to please stop insulting my mom.
“Biko, hey, stop it. Stop, hey, Biko, please. Look, for some reason, I actually do feel like I owe you all this explanation.
“You know why? Because I don’t know why everyone is pained about my life. But I don’t feel like you all are pained from a bad side. You’re pained because you used your, was it 200 Naira or 500 Naira to buy my CD just to watch my movie as a child and you all watched me.
“Oh, thank you. Fine, and it’s okay. I’m in the limelight, so it’s fine.
“You all have a say, so it’s okay. And that’s why I’m explaining. So please, stop insulting my mom.
“She’s the best thing that ever happened to me. She is my god on earth.
“Ah, she’s strong. For seven fucking…. Well, kids, watch this video. For seven years, my mom held it down.
“She tried. You all insulted her, but she tried. She tried.
“It’s me. I’m the one.Issy Coconut’s head.
“It’s me. I’m so ashamed to say I fell in love. Type shit.
“But I actually really did. And it’s crazy what I did. Everyone said no.
“My mom, huh? Come on now. And you all stop saying I got married out of greed. Excuse me.
“No, we were not broke. Does that make sense? And secondly, how do you guys think? Like, what amount of money can a man give to a mother to get her child that is practically providing everything in the house? That is practically… Through this child, she trained all her children. Like, through this child.
“Like, what? What else? That child was her only source of livelihood. I was a blessing, a gift to my mom. God used me to settle her.
“And it’s my job to make sure she’s forever happy. She has suffered for us. And you keep on insulting her.
“Anyway, stop. Stop insulting my mother. Why lie? She’s the best woman on earth.
“She is. She is. She is.
“She is. She warned me. My brothers warned me.
“Everybody warned me. Nobody’s going to cry on this camera. Everybody warned me.
“And then I drove out at night. I was going to k!ll myself if I don’t marry Ned. Everyone was looking for me.
“My brothers were fighting, breaking bottles. Like, guys, the Nigerian police… As I was saying, everyone knew. I went to the police station and said, arrest me my family does not want me to marry the love of my life. But I actually did fall in love with him. It’s crazy, but I did.”