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“He was obsessed, possessive” – Tems narrates toxic relationship experience

Popular Nigerian singer Tems has opened up about her past experience in a toxic relationship, revealing how her partner’s behaviour negatively affected her.

Speaking during a candid interview with media personality Angie Martinez, the Essence crooner described the relationship as one where her partner was “obsessive and possessive.”

"He was obsessed, possessive" – Tems narrates toxic relationship experience
Tems.

According to Tems, the experience conflicted with her personal beliefs about love and relationships, as she emphasized that a healthy relationship should be built on partnership rather than control or ownership.

She also noted that toxic relationships can be particularly draining, adding that in many cases, the person exhibiting toxic behaviour may not even be aware of it.

Her words …

“I have experienced love where I thought it was love but it was more like when someone is trying to own you. They think that they own you. And that’s not love.

“Love is not obsession. And it is not possession. I can’t own another human being. Love is when both of you become one person.

“We don’t own each other, we are each other. I feel everyone has experienced toxic love with someone who doesn’t even know that they are toxic.

“They say they love you but they don’t know that they don’t even love you. Because you can’t love someone you feel you own..”

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“God will humble you same way Chris Okafor apologized” – Doris Ogala blasts Tonto Dikeh, reveals alleged evil deeds

Nollywood actress Doris Ogala has come out strongly against her former friend Tonto Dikeh, saying God will soon humble her to confess everything she has done.

In a heated post shared on Instagram, Doris claimed that just like God made Chris Okafor apologise to her, the same will happen to Tonto Dikeh.

Doris Ogala

According to her, Tonto has caused pain not just to her but to many people in Nollywood, accusing her of destroying homes and lives.

“The God that humbled Chris Okafor to kneel on his demonic altar to apologise to me… the same God will surely humble Tonto Dikeh to confess all she did to me and every other Nollywood person she tormented

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“My money is in your account; when I am ready, you’ll refund it” – Verydarkman tells Blessing CEO

Nigerian social media activist Verydarkman has reacted to recent statements made by relationship therapist Blessing CEO regarding her health condition.

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Recall that the socialite had taken to social media to allege that she was suffering from stage 4 cancer.

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Verydarkman.

However, during an Instagram Live session with media personality Daddy Freeze, Blessing CEO revealed that she had been diagnosed with breast cancer at a hospital in Nigeria.

However, she stated that she was unaware of the stage of the illness and could not provide a clear estimate of the cost of treatment.
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Blessing CEO.

She also admitted that she may have exaggerated certain aspects while seeking financial assistance for a planned surgery.

Verydarkman reacts to her new claim

Reacting to the development, Verydarkman urged her to properly confirm the stage of her condition, noting that such information is crucial, especially after receiving public donations.

He disclosed that he had personally contributed money to her and expressed concern over the ambiguity surrounding her claims.

According to him, the situation could mislead the public into believing that funds were obtained under questionable circumstances, stressing that such actions, if proven, could amount to a serious offense.

The activist added that while he has been occupied with other matters, he would revisit the issue and could demand a refund of his donation.

He said …

“Blessing CEO, my money is in your account. All these things you are saying that you don’t know whether you are stage 4 or not. It now appears you defrauded the public, which is a very serious crime. I have been busy since, but when I am ready, you will refund my money. You will learn the hard way”.

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“I brought Mercy Aigbe into Nollywood” – Olaide Olabanji

Nollywood actor and producer Olaide Olabanji has publicly accused his colleague, Mercy Aigbe, of ingratitude, alleging that she turned against him after he introduced her to the film industry.

 

Speaking during a recent interview with media personality Oyinmomo, Olabanji claimed that he played a significant role in helping Aigbe gain entry into Nollywood.

 

"I brought Mercy Aigbe into Nollywood" – Olaide Olabanji
Olaide Olabanji

According to him, their relationship was initially cordial, but things changed after she rose to fame.

He alleged that the actress became distant and unapproachable, adding that she eventually blocked him on social media.

"I brought Mercy Aigbe into Nollywood" – Olaide Olabanji
Mercy Aigbe.

Olabanji further claimed that their interactions have since been tense whenever they encounter each

Expressing his disappointment, the filmmaker stated that he felt betrayed by someone he once supported, accusing Aigbe of repaying his kindness with what he described as “wickedness.”

He also alleged that her resentment towards him had grown to the point where she wished him harm.

His words …

“I brought Mercy Aigbe into the movie industry. I saw her in a shop in 2004 and asked her if she could act. She said yes, and I put her on. But now she is blocking me. To her, it is as if I should no longer exist.”

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“My parents rejected my house gift”- Zlatan confesses, discloses reason

Nigerian singer Zlatan Ibile has opened up about the challenges he faced with his parents while rising to fame in the music industry.

Speaking during an interview, the music star revealed that his parents initially doubted the source of his wealth, especially after he bought his first house in 2019 at the age of 25 to gift them, shortly after his breakthrough.

Zlatan Ibile

According to him, they believed the money was linked to internet fraud.

My parents refused to live in the first house I bought in Lekki because they thought it was fraud money… I had to print my account statement to show them I am being honest,” Zlatan said.

Zlatan also revealed how strict his upbringing was, noting that even as an adult, his parents still enforced him to live with them.

He explained that they placed restrictions on his lifestyle, including curfews and personal choices, despite his growing success.

“They later told me that if they have to come, they will do a seven days prayers to confirm if it’s from God. When they finally agreed to move in, they gave me a condition that I would also live with them,” he added.

The revelation has sparked reactions online, with many relating to strict African parenting, while others praised his parents for trying to guide him despite his fame and wealth.

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“I’m so broken, Nigerians” – Viral Enugu nurse who exposed ‘No light, No water’ at Uwani hospital suspended

A nurse at Uwani General Hospital who went viral for highlighting the poor conditions at the facility has been suspended indefinitely and removed from her clinical duties.

Viral Video Exposes Dire Conditions

The nurse gained attention online after posting a video exposing the hospital’s lack of basic necessities, including water, electricity, and oxygen, which she said made it extremely difficult to manage critical medical situations safely.

Her post sparked national outrage, with many Nigerians demanding urgent government intervention to address the failing infrastructure and ensure the safety of both patients and healthcare workers.

Nurse Speaks Out

In a video released after her suspension, the nurse expressed heartbreak over the punishment, insisting that her intentions were never to bring the government down but to draw attention to the urgent issues at the hospital.

In her words:

“I’m the girl that posted about the hospital at Uwani about the light issues. Sadly, I was given an indefinite suspension. And now I was removed from my clinical duties. Now I want to ask Nigerians: Did they do anything wrong? They never posted their video to bring the government down or to paint them bad. Only did that to bring their attention, which luckily have been attended. I am so broken Nigerians. I didn’t know that my goodness would be punishing me so badly.”

Public Outcry and Calls for Reinstatement

The suspension has sparked strong reactions online, with many calling for the nurse’s immediate reinstatement.

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I want a God-fearing man as husband – Tems

Nigerian singer Tems has shared her thoughts on marriage, emphasizing that it should be rooted in growth and purpose rather than just emotions.

Speaking during a recent interview with media personality Angie Martinez, the Grammy-winning artist explained that she believes marriage should be approached with a mindset of advancement, not just feelings.

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Tems.

According to Tems, relationships, especially marriage, are bound to experience challenges, and individuals must be prepared for moments that may not always be pleasant.

She noted that because of the unpredictable nature of marriage, she values the importance of choosing a God-fearing partner. In her view, such a partner is more likely to be accountable and committed to making the relationship work.

“My partner has to be a God-fearing man. Because why would you truly love me if you don’t have anyone that you answer to? If you’re not accountable to anyone, how could you choose to love and keep loving me for the rest of our lives?

 

“If you’re the god of your life, why would you love me forever? You could just discard me anytime you want. But marriage is something that makes you better as a human being. It should. It shouldn’t be about only love, it’s about compatibility. It’s about whether a relationship makes you a better person, like it evolves you. Because marriage is a whole another level, it’s supposed to bring out the hard times,” she stated.

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“I dare you to discontinue the case” – VeryDarkMan slams Sowore’s promise to free BLord following detention

Social media activist VeryDarkMan has reacted strongly to human rights activist Omoyele Sowore’s promise to secure the release of businessmanBLord, who was reportedly remanded at Kuje Correctional Centre following allegations of defamation.

VDM had earlier announced that BLord was arrested and would be remanded for 26 days for allegedly defaming his character. Sowore, however, took to social media to pledge that he would ensure BLord’s release.

Reacting to this development, VDM criticized Sowore’s involvement while detailing what he claims BLord did to provoke the legal issues.

“Omoyele Sowore do that thing wey you won do, and if them come born you well, that thing wey your mind dey tell you say you be, that you will discontinue the case, I won know who you be. But the one I want to tell you, if them born you well, do that thing you have on your mind. If not, that you’re m@d.

On the 21st of January, BLord posted my picture that I will be coming to Onitsha, wore me cloth and put Blunt Gadget to advertise his business,” he said

VDM further alleged that BLord forged a flight ticket to make people believe they were on good terms and even created a video suggesting as much.

“On January 22, he posted that I had approved Billpoint as the number one app for local and international flights. He also created a billboard using my photo and claimed he paid me ₦500 million to be his ambassador — defrauding people with my name,” he added.

VDM emphasized that BLord’s alleged actions misrepresented him publicly and defrauded unsuspecting individuals.

He reiterated that all claims of payments or endorsements in his name are false, while issuing a stern warning to Sowore to refrain from the case.

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“I don’t know my cancer stage” – Blessing CEO clarifies claim, opens up on health condition

Popular relationship expert, Blessing CEO, has opened up about her ongoing battle with breast cancer, shedding light on the emotional and physical toll it has taken on her.

During an Instagram Live session with Ifedayo Olarinde, popularly known as Daddy Freeze, she revealed that she was diagnosed with breast cancer at a Nigerian hospital.

Blessing CEO

However, she noted that the exact stage of the illness remains unclear, as it was not explicitly stated in her medical report.

“I discovered a lump in July last year, and I was later told in early January that it was cancerous. I began preparing for a mastectomy to determine how far the condition had spread. I’m not ready to share my hospital report yet, but I will share it soon,” she said

Speaking on the cost of treatment, Blessing admitted she does not have a definite figure, explaining that her earlier appeal for financial assistance was driven by uncertainty over the full scope of her medical needs, which could include surgery, therapy, and other procedures.

Addressing criticism during the live session, she responded to a lawyer who questioned her for soliciting funds without a detailed medical report.

“I didn’t state a fixed amount when asking for help. I was just trying to plan because I didn’t know what to expect, though I may have exaggerated things,” she clarified.

Her statement comes days after she emotionally appealed to Nigerians in a viral video, where she claimed to be battling stage 4 cancer, expressing fear and exhaustion over her condition.

Reacting to the development, actress Sarah Martins publicly dismissed Blessing’s claims, accusing her of staging the situation to solicit funds for her partner IVD.

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“She can’t even lie” – Man heartbroken as girlfriend sends cousin to pack her things after being caught cheating

A young man has sparked reactions online after sharing his painful heartbreak story about his girlfriend’s alleged betrayal.

The story was shared on Facebook by Auntie Momoza, where the man recounted how he unexpectedly discovered his partner with another man.

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According to the man, he visited his girlfriend’s house unannounced, only to find her with another man.

Rather than cause a scene, he said he controlled himself and quietly walked away, but later broke down in tears when he got home.

Girlfriend’s Reaction Sparks More Pain

The man revealed that what hurt him even more was her reaction after the incident.

Instead of reaching out to explain or apologise, she allegedly sent a brief message stating that she would send her cousin to pick up her belongings from his place.

He added that she showed no remorse and later told him to communicate with her mother regarding matters concerning their child.

Three-Year Relationship Ends Abruptly

The man explained that they had been together for three years and share a child.

He expressed shock over how quickly everything ended.

In his words: “Please keep me anonymous. I visited my girlfriend’s place unannounced and found her with another man. I managed to control myself and walked away. I got home and cried myself to sleep. I’ve been together with her for three years and we have a child. I expected her to call and try to lie or something, but she only sent me a text telling me she’ll send her cousin to come fetch her stuff at my place. My heart just sank. It seemed like she didn’t even care I caught her in action. No remorse, zero. Her cousin came to fetch her things and that was it. The last text was to tell me that anything to do with the child I must communicate with her mom. I have never cheated or mistreated her. I’ve tried my best to be a wonderful boyfriend and great dad. For her to betray me like this? With a married man? This life neh!!!…”

The post has since sparked mixed reactions online, with many sympathizing with the man while others shared differing opinions on the situation.

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"She can't even lie" - Man heartbroken as girlfriend sends cousin to pack her things after being caught cheating