Nigerian media personality Oladotun Ojuolape Kayode, popularly known as Do2dtun, has responded to the recent incident involving content creator Peller, who crashed his car during a live broadcast amid reported problems in his relationship with Jarvis.
Reacting via social media, Do2dtun said the relationship between Peller and Jarvis appears to be driven by interest, fame and public approval rather than real emotional bonding.
He stated that relationships built around attention and validation often create pressure, false expectations and unhealthy habits.
He advised both parties to take time away from each other to understand who they are as individuals, make their own mistakes and grow without the weight of public demand.
He said, “A relationship built on interest & validation will eventually cause you to have unattainable expectations, the need to live above your means & satisfy the desires of strangers. What are you both besides the light camera action? Anything built to satisfy the energy of the people is a ticking time bomb.
“They both have a long way to go. They are in a time & age to make their mistakes. Live & develop themselves individually against doing it through a relationship.
“They tied their innocence to the expectations they created for themselves. We amplified an unrealistic expectation. Sadly, it takes away the happiness when the demand is high.
“When you are grown to think money against all odds is the only key to be seen; validated or keep a relationship; you just built your own cage. You will move from being happy to being seen.
“Any relationship that requires you must be together to be validated will eventually lack individualism; happiness & turn to just performance. One party will feel cheated eventually.
“Peller & Jarvis is a ticking time bomb. Trust me, they need to move around, test the waters, live and make their mistakes individually. They will eventually see their truth and worth.
“They might even realize they should have just being friends or might come together later in future and have an amazing relationship. I am not ruling it out but they need to LIVE! and grow individually for now.
“They grew too fast and we encouraged it. You people that stan them are the real devils. Kids at their age still live under the roof of their parents. There is no justification for his actions & also it’s time he needs to reevaluate his primary role. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt.
“Many of us were stupid at that age, we just had guidance. These kids are already playing their parents roles, what do you expect?
“Once your kids become the parent or your friends over being your children in their teenage years; you might lose them. No matter how famous they are or what they give you, put your foot down on certain things. Fame is fickle yet it needs to be tutored & controlled. Even adults can’t handle it not to talk of kids.
“Let a child be a child. We did stupid things too at their age. The only difference is some didn’t have the capacity to amplify it. Fame & money are dangerous tools. These kids at this age might even be the breadwinner. Who wan advise them? Things are otherwise done in reverse. Children need to be children even if you are famous.
“Peller & Jarvis is not a symbiotic relationship. One will grow faster than the other and feel caged and the other might be feel slighted for giving everything and yet can’t control the narrative. It is cute but toxic. Them without us, the clicks and what we think might be perfect. Sadly, you are all invested hence why it won’t work”.
