Hello guys, My name’s Topboi my friends call me that and you will figure out why later.
These days guys find it difficult to approach ladies for various reasons ranging from fear,low self esteem,being shy or you just feel the girl is way out of your league. Trust me I’ve approached ladies that can buy me with a snap of their fingers and it did end well not in tears.
Step 1: first thing you need to know is you can only get two answers no or yes, getting a no is not the end of the world, maybe she’s just not the one. so let’s focus our energy on how we can get a yes.
Dress neat and simple: you dont have to look all expensive with them gold jewelry or iced chains before you talk to that lady, its all about making a difference , the only way to achieve that is to stand out, wear a lovely cologne and we are done with the first step.
Step 2 : make an eye contact. You dont want to get embarrassed or talk to someone having a bad day, so brothers, remember it is rude to stare, so make a two second gaze,keep a straight face, she doesn’t want to see your shiny teeth uncle! ,if you keep your gaze she’ll move hers, if she doesn’t try and make a wave either ways you’ve registered your face in her head, that way when you show up you are not a total stranger anymore.
Step 3 : this is the main move ,be calculative when you want to approach her, try and read her mood, is she comfortable, is she all frowning, for me I hate to approach ladies that frown , remember a straight face is different from a frown, moving on you need to be calm ,wear a calm and gentle smile and approach her in a usual and calm manner, words like hello,good afternoon (depending on the time) will ensure you get a reply from the type of lady you should be talking to,if she doesn’t reply a good afternoon I dont think you should hold a conversation with her,after your expected reply, we need to employ the 2mins rule.
What is the 2mins rule: its the rule that States that a sweet boy will not exceed 2mins when he is talking to a new friend.
Step 4: introduce your self and your intentions, ladies like braveguys so with all that calm and bravery you must be in her head already. How do you introduce yourself? State your name, not the full one o,and dont do nicknames, for example..”hello My name is olamide , what’s your name please”… This depicts you respect her and you need to prove you are a gentleman, if She tells you Hername which in most cases would just be one word ,expected reply is “my name Is Jane doe”. Next thing is your intention and reason. Please and please don’t use all those sweet words ,maybe she’sbeautiful or she looks like Ariana grande she hears that everyday and she doesn’t care. “I’d like to be a friend” is my favorite line, most of our cute ladies will say ok and then you can get their number.. You know what to say right? I’ll leave that to you.
Step 5: if operation get her number is a success ,kindly leave as fast as possible, when you get her number, kindly say a thank you, and “I’ll text you later” does it for me. If you keep to this little steps and your composure is good, be sure to get a good reply when you place that text.
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